UNFAITHFULL IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP? BEWARE!!!

Son-in-law in mother-in-law's bed! On his knees

Don’t mess outside marriage – it seems to me as if the silent invisible bystander is the Angel of Death. We all know the  "nice words" describing an adulterous relationship: skelm, skelmpie and so on. This is dangerous stuff and not to be caught in that web. 

It seems as if women are not safe with their lovers – be it in marriage or not.

It is not monotonous to read about another woman that was killed and that her lover [be it a husband or not] is the prime suspect; it is extremely upsetting. Howard Feldman writes and asks the question: Are bathroom doors killing SA women? You can read it by clicking on this link.

He refers to Oscar Pistorius and Jason Rohde. The cutting edge difference between these two is that Oscar is a murderer. Rohde is not guilty of anything and neither you nor I can accuse him of anything. He is a suspect; he was only arrested on Tuesday 22 August 2016 at his home in Bryanston. If you want to read that story, click here.

It is suggested that the statement “… women are not safe with their lovers …” are not entirely true and yet … Yet, there are women who are not safe.

Some years ago I was in the company of a state advocate where we were interacting in a murder case. During our tough and difficult discussions, he blurted out: “He must have loved her dearly!”

I was beside myself when he said that. Does that mean you kill your wife because you love her?

This “husband” killed his “wife” in cold blood and tried to commit suicide. He eventually was found guilty of murder and served a prison sentence. When he gave evidence at his trial, he burst out crying. The state advocate got a chance amid his heartrending sobs and asked him: “Mister, why are you crying?” We had to wait sometime for him to calm down and then he answered: “My wife is dead.”

You probably still remember the case of Fred Van Der Vyfer who was found not guilty of the murder of his girlfriend Inge Lotz in Stellenbosch some time ago? You can read a portion of his story by clicking here. The murderer is still at large. I wonder whether Fred is curious to know who killed his girlfriend?

BEELD of Wednesday 23 August 2016 on page 7 carries this horrific story about a man and his mother-in-law being in bed together. St Paul refers in 1 Corinthians 5 verses 1 – 2 about a similar kind of immoral affair. You can read Paul’s views here.

The teachings of Jesus Christ about a relationship between a man and a woman and more precisely between a married man and his wife are clear and unambiguous. You can read it in Hebrews 13: verse 4 by clicking here.